異文化間の壁って解かってるつもりでも意外と何処かでぶつかってしまうものですね～。
中学時代をフランスと台湾で過ごし、日本の高校や大学でも多くの外国人との交流があり
文化の違い、考え方の違いで友達と衝突
したことや、涙
を流した事がたくさんあった。
でもどうがんばってもその壁はずっと昔から存在して、壊せることは無いって理解してたつもりだった。
だから、いつかまた同じ事で悩んでも、それゎ受け入れなきゃいけないって思ってた。
今日友達とご飯を食べた。
私が
サイテーなやつだ、大嫌い
って言っても。
最後には
彼のバックグラウンドと文化の違いを受け止めなきゃダメだよ
って言われてしまった。
解かってる・・・。ただ・・・
文化とか関係あるの？！って思ってしまう。
私ゎ、○○人としてじゃなくて、
男として、、、人間として許せないと思った。
道徳心の問題だと思ってる。
・・・どうしても触れて欲しくない事だったり。
とにかく、とにかくね！
ど～～～してそこに触れちゃったかなぁ？
何も知らないくせに！！表面しか見てないくせに
ってか空気読め！！
バカぁぁ～～！！！！！！！
って思ってしまう。
これももまだまだ子供な証拠なのかな。
そんな香織のために、
なんとかするから、頼ってよ
任しといて！
って言ってくれる人たちがいるのも幸せな事です。
大切にしようと思います。
ついこの間の話。
寮で洗濯
をしました。
洗濯機の後に乾燥機に入れて・・・３０分待つ。
でもその間ちょ～～～～お腹が空いてペコペコ状態
だったので、ご飯
を作って食べました。
４０分経過・ ・ ・
（か）ふ～～～お腹いっぱい。さて、今何時かな？？あ、もうこんな時間、洗濯物取らなきゃ～～
って感じで取りに行ったわけです。
ビックリですょ。。。
私のランドリー全部乾燥機外に出てました。
誰だょ
間違いなく次に使った人なんですけどね・・・。
次に使った人ってのが、どうやら
みたいです
（乾燥機の扉が透明なんで見えちゃうんです・・・中身 
）
つか、男？！！！
私の下着とかめっちゃ入ってたけど・・・・
ってか他にもいっぱい乾燥機あるんだからそっち使えって・・・
でもこれ、こっちでゎ当たり前なんです。
だから、ムカついても。なんの文句も言えません。
やっぱりまだまだ奥が深い・ ・ ・異文化
その彼、私のパンツが見えないように上からタオルで隠しといてくれました。
なかなか気が利く男ぢゃないか
*:..｡o○☆ﾟ･:,｡*:..｡o○☆*:..｡o○☆ﾟ･:,｡*:..｡o○☆*:..｡o○☆ﾟ･:,｡*:..｡o○☆
{ENG}
It's sometimes hard to understand Intercaultural communication even though u know about it well.
I have a lots of experiences of intercultural communication since I've been to many places in my life.
(France, Taiwan etc...)
Also I met a lot of foreigners in my high school and univ.
There were many days that I had conflict w/ my frenz and cried.
But at the same time I learned that I can't break all of the walls btw ppl from the diff coutries.
So I thought to myself that I have to accept it whenever I have the same prob in the future.
I had dinner w/ one of my frenz today.
I told him about my prob. and I said to him that I don't really like the person coz I think what he've done to me was terrible.
But he told me at the end that I also accept that the person is from diff culture from me.
I know... but
I didn't want the person to attack my weakest point in my heart.
I was too sensitive about the thing now...
u don't know anything about it. u don't even know my feeling. don't know ow much I hated myself about it.
I didn't get angry bcoz of the person't culturally unacceptable behavior, but I didn't like it bcoz he did sth that against human morality.
This is how I thought...
may be I'm being too childish.
But I'm glad that there are many ppl who care about me.
I think I'm a happy person to have frenz and bf saying
"Don't worry, I'll take care of it"
"Call me anytime u need a help"
I luv them and I hope that I can help them someday in the future, too.
I went to the laundry of my dorm few days agao.
It takes about 30 min to dry clothes with the machine.
But I was too hungry at the time so I cooked sth and ate.
"I'm full~~ well.. what time is it now? wow it's been 40 min already! I gotta go "
But when I arrived to the laundry place, I was totally
Surprised!!!!!!
All of my clothes were out side of the machine already...
(Who did this...)
It's too obvious that the person who is using the machine did it.
But as long as I could c, the person must be a guy.
What?! a Guy???
Wait! I put my under wears inside too.
u could've used other machines since there were many of those avaiable...
But to tell u the trueth, this is pretty normal in HK
so I can't really complain about this even though I don't like it.
we, JPN, can't believe this things...
yeah... It seems like I still have a lot of things to learn about intercultural things.
Btw, the guy covered my under wears w/ towel in order to hide them from somebody else's eyes.
What a nice guy